Chapter Five - The Creation of the Great Mother

 In the past atheist didn’t have an explanation of how the universe was created without a God. The only alternative was that from the ancient Greek philosopher Aristotle who claimed that the universe is eternal, and didn’t need to be created. Although some ancient religions have also said the same thing. But many people had problems with believing in an eternal universe and thought that, God created the world, was a better explanation. But the problem of how the universe was created was solved with the emergence of the Big Bang theory in the early 20th century. So today, we now have three possible answers to how the universe was created. A male God created the universe; the eternal universe; or the Big Bang theory. In the ancient past there was a fourth possibility and that the Great Mother gave birth to the universe, but nowadays this is hardly ever seriously discussed. But in ancient text there is a clue to how the universe might have been created and what created God. We get a clue from the ancient Greek myth of the Goddess Gaia. (Also spelt Gaea or Ge)

Ancient Greek text say that Gaia is the primordial goddess of the Earth. She emerged from chaos and is the supreme or Mother Goddess of both mortals and immortals. All gods and goddesses are descended from her. Although there are variations of this in later Greek myths like Hesiod’s Theogony (730 -700 BC). Where he claims Gaia emerged out of chaos with Tartarus the Abyss and Eros which is Love. Other myths claim she is the mother of Uranus, with whom she conceived the Titans the Cyclopes, and the Giants. But these are later myths, which are not part of the original creation story. The idea that the world is created out of chaos, is not unique to Greek mythology. We even see something similar in the Bible:

And the earth was without form, and void; and darkness was upon the face of the deep: and the Spirit of God moved upon the face of the waters. Genesis 1: 2 Webster's Bible Translation.

This says; the earth was without form and void, which similar to saying the world was in a state of chaos. But other ancient religions had similar beliefs; Mesopotamian, Egyptian, Chinese, Norse and even Hinduism. All believe that our world was created out chaos. But of course many of these major religions today like to claim it was a male God that either created our world or brought order out of chaos. For instance, the Mesopotamian creation story claims that chaos was the Goddess Tiamat. But the God Marduk defeated her and brought order to the world. This is also mentioned in one of the Gnostic Gospels. The Sophia of Jesus Christ, where it says:

All natures emerging from primordial chaos are in shadowless light, unspeakable joy and unutterable celebration.

So the ancient people believed we live in an infinite universe and that at one time it was a just a sea of chaos without form or structure. Which does make sense, the alternative to that is the Big Bang theory, which claims the universe exploded out of nothing. Then out of that explosion, it created the orderly universe like we see today in the form of galaxies, stars and planets. But as the fine-tuned universe theory points out, that is extremely unlikely to happen. Roger Penrose calculated the odds of that happening is 10^10^123 to one. Which is a number vastly larger than the estimated number of atoms in the observable universe.

If we accept that Roger Penrose is correct, then the only way the Big Bang theory could happen is that it was designed by a vast intelligence. So if we accept this, then the Big Bang theory, that has been used to prove that God doesn’t exist, can instead be used to prove, that there is a God. Because only a God could fine-tune the Big Bang in such a way that it creates the orderly universe like we now see. This suggests that the Big Bang may have been the origins of the physical universe of matter, but what came before that, wasn’t physical. As Niels Bohr a Danish physicist said:

Everything we call real is made of things that cannot be regarded as real.

What the fine-tuned universe theory and quantum physics suggests, is that what we think of as physical matter, is simply energy, but designed in such a way it does seem to be physical. So an infinite universe of chaotic energy, does sound more believable than the idea that everything got started in the Big Bang, that exploded out of nothing. But how was order created in this infinite but chaotic universe of energy? The way it probably happened is that within that chaos would be infinite possibilities. Where all possible combinations of energy will emerge. So one of these combinations of energy could have produced the first spark of intelligence and self-awareness.

This is not much different from how atheistic scientists claim life got started on Earth from something they call; Abiogenesis. No scientist has been able to produce life from non-living matter so it’s just a theory; but there are many theories on how this happened. Like; Primordial Soup; RNA World Hypothesis; Iron-Sulphur World Theory; Panspermia and Hydrothermal Vents. All of these theories claim life appeared through a chance mix of chemicals, within the right environment. But God wasn’t created in the physical three dimensional universe. Because what the fine-tuned universe theory tells us; is that you need order in which to create matter. Which means, the primordial universe was so chaotic that it couldn’t create matter. So it must have been a chaotic world of pure energy. But order was created in this chaotic universe through a spark of intelligence that was able to reproduce itself.

There is also; The Infinite Monkey Theorem. Which is a thought experiment first introduced by French mathematician Émile Borel in the 1920s. Where he suggested that a infinite number of monkeys hitting typewriter keys at random would eventually write the complete works of Shakespeare. Many people have been sceptical about this. But it has been tested with modern computers and it has been shown that random typing by a computer has produced meaningful sentences and even sentences of Shakespeare. So if this can happen with just a computer in a tiny planet in the vast universe. Then an infinite universe of infinite time and space can create far, far more, and bring the first spark of intelligence into being. But that intelligence would have to be feminine in nature.

So how do we know that the first spark of intelligence and self-awareness was feminine? We know this from the behaviour of men and women. The characteristics of the masculine is aggressive and competitive. This leads to conflict, violence, warfare and finally to chaos. So even if a masculine spark of intelligence did emerge out of the sea of chaos, it couldn’t last very long. Because it would try to compete and fight against the surrounding chaos. Which will only make the chaos even worse. This means the masculine cannot overcome chaos by fighting it, as conflict and belligerence only creates even more chaos. So the more the masculine intelligence fights the chaos, the more likely it will end up being adsorbed back into it.

Whereas the characteristics of the feminine, is love, compassion, harmony and oneness. So a feminine spark of intelligence wouldn’t try to compete or fight against the sea of chaos. She would instead try to bring order and harmony into it. Also, the feminine is all about giving birth and reproduction. Complex life appears in our world within the bodies of females. So the first feminine spark of intelligence would also be about reproducing herself. Perhaps in a similar way microscopic life got started on Earth, and that was through binary fission. Which means something like, cell division, where the one becomes two, two becomes four, four becomes eight and so on.

Then by doing this, she would grow larger and larger by bringing more and more order into the chaos around her, until she was able to create her own universe. This is why the Mesopotamian creation story cannot be true. The nature of chaos is masculine, so it cannot be a goddess like Tiamat. In this creation myth Tiamat kills her consort and was at war with her own children before finally being defeated and slain by the storm god Marduk. We can only say that the Goddess Tiamat as portrayed in this myth, didn’t act or behave like a normal women, but more like a man. Also, fighting would only make the chaos worse, so it’s impossible to create order and harmony by combat. So if Tiamat was chaos and Marduk tried to fight and destroy her, then the chaos would increase and he would be overwhelmed by the chaos he is fighting.

But to be fair; when male religions attempt to give male gods a role in creation, it’s possible to make a strong case for this. The aggressive nature of the masculine does lead to conflict and chaos and this means the sea of chaos is masculine in nature. So it was from the masculine sea of chaos that the feminine emerged. So the two strongest forces in the universe are the masculine chaos and the feminine Great Mother. But she worked with the chaos and brought order, stability and harmony to create our cosmos, but not completely. Chaos is always present no matter what we do, as science shows in the Second Law of Thermodynamics. Which again to quote from the internet:

The total entropy of an isolated system (or the universe) never decreases over time; it either increases in irreversible processes or remains constant in ideal reversible processes. This is why systems naturally evolve toward a state of maximum disorder known as thermodynamic equilibrium.

In other words, entropy is deterioration leading to disorder and without a guiding intelligence that keeps our universe in a state of balance and order, everything will break down into chaos. All galaxies, stars and planets will disappear and finally even matter will break down into pure energy. Scientist call this the “heat death”, where the universe will become cold, dark and featureless.

We can see this in the many ancient stone churches and cathedrals we see today in Europe. Many are hundreds of years old and some over a thousand years old. But these building survive not only because they are built of stone, but because of continuous maintenance. If these buildings were not maintained, then they would fall into a state of disrepair and in time would collapse. The same is true of the human body. When we are fetuses being made inside a woman’s body we have low entropy and this continues as we grow to full size. But after that we age, as the entropy of our bodies increase and our health deteriorates. Until we finally die and our bodies decompose, as it’s broken down by bacteria and insects.

So females keep entropy low as they create life inside their bodies and nurture their children until they grow to full size. But other hand the more masculine a man becomes, the more entropy he creates, because his aggressive and competitive instincts creates conflict and which if not restrained by the feminine, leads to violence and chaos.

This suggests men are still more strongly influenced by the sea of chaos, than by the Great Mother. Which demonstrates why we urgently need the loving influence of caring women within world politics. Because if left to their own devices, men will surely in time, destroy our civilization, with advanced technology. So it means, that it would be a very good idea if women did rule the world. Because matriarchal governments of only women, would not want to go to war and prefer to talk over their differences. As well as wanting to create a more fair and equal society.

So this then answers the first question atheists ask: Who or what created God? As the ancient text tell us: The Great Mother emerged from a infinite but chaotic universe that once had no form or structure. But had infinite possibilities within that chaos and one of these possibilities became feminine intelligent life, which created order and harmony out of the chaos. But what about the next question atheists ask; If God is the God of love and preached by Jesus; why do we live in a world of suffering?

As mentioned previously the Great Mother emerged from the sea of chaos. So we now have in the whole universe two different elements, the Great Mother and the sea of chaos. The Great Mother is feminine as she is love, order, harmony and oneness. While the sea of chaos is masculine because the masculine is about competition, aggression, conflict, violence which leads to chaos. So the Great Mother is represented by the women on our planet while the sea of chaos is represented by men. And how bad the chaos created by men can become, we saw in the cold war in the last century. When it became possible to end our civilization through nuclear warfare.

So why has the Great Mother designed a world like this? Why do we have people on our planet that represents the sea of chaos? That cause conflict and strife on our planet and if given half a chance would destroy our civilization. I was puzzled by this, but came up with two possible explanations.

First possibility.

The Great Mother got started by reproducing herself. So she became just a collection of small entities but because they were feminine, they were able to unite in unconditional love. But as she was creating these new entities from the sea of chaos, none of them were exactly the same and some were deficient in some ways. Because they either lacked intelligence or love. So any entity that lacked the ability to love couldn’t join the collective, that is the Great Mother. The reason it cannot do this is the vibration frequencies are incompatible. So an unloving, masculine presence would break up the harmony and unity of the Great Mother, which means she cannot allow it to enter her. The masculine cannot even merge with other masculine intelligences like himself, as they will end up fighting against each other. Adding to the chaos surrounding them and making it more likely for them to drown in the sea of chaos.

But the Great Mother felt sorry for the masculine intelligences, whom she was creating, but couldn’t protect them. Because they were incapable of joining her in love. So she attempted to save these masculine intelligences by creating a world where the masculine and feminine could meet. This was the material three dimensional universe, which had habitable planets like our planet Earth. (She may have used the Big Bang to create a 3D universe). The idea was that male and females souls would come together in three dimensional material bodies. So the female souls would teach male souls how to love. But a reason had to be created for men to want to be with women. So sex was invented, which means men would be sexually attracted to women. Sex was also used as a means of reproduction to create more bodies, for which souls could inhabit. It also gave the masculine a role in reproduction to give the males another way to learn how to love. Also, on our planet, new beings created from the chaos that lacked intelligence, could come to live here in animal bodies and learn intelligence.

Second possibility.

Because we live in a infinite universe of infinite time and space. Intelligences may be spontaneously emerging from the sea of chaos all the time. But because these intelligences come from chaos most of them would be masculine in nature. While any loving feminine intelligent coming from the sea of chaos could join the Great Mother. But unloving male intelligence would try to fight the chaos around it, making it worse and end up being swallowed up in the chaos once again. The Great Mother may have become aware of this and wanted to save them before too many were overwhelmed by the chaos. She couldn’t allowed them into the collective of souls which is the Great Mother. Because as they were incapable of love and would break up the harmony of the Great Mother.

As mentioned before, the Great Mother created a three dimensional universe and created planets which had animal life. She put the souls incapable of love into male bodies and put loving souls from the Great Mother in female bodies, to teach unloving souls how to love. So in this scenario, the Earth would be like a nursery for new masculine souls coming from the sea of chaos. While women would be the nursery teachers. But the problem is that the Great Mother, in her wisdom, made men bigger and stronger than women. So women couldn’t use physical force in which to control men. The only way she can teach is through persuasion and by demonstrating unconditional love.

Another problem has emerged and that is, as men have began to learn how to love, it makes them effeminate and diffident. We see this in Jesus, who seemed very meek and mild. So in a patriarchal world, it is more likely that macho men will be in charge and it is claim by many people; it is psychopaths that rule the world. In a article called: The Secret World of Psychopaths: Why Psychopaths Have Always Ruled the World and Always Will, by Daniel Jeffries. He wrote:

I call serial killers “failed psychopaths” because they have zero impulse control and no ability to strategically weave their way into the fabric of society. So where are the rest of the psychos? The vast majority of them aren’t found in jail cells. They’re found in positions of power.

The author Frank Herbert also agreed: Power attracts pathological personalities. It is not that power corrupts but that it is magnetic to the corruptible.

Psychologists claim that, psychopathy is untreatable, and perhaps the reason for that, is that psychopaths lack the ability to love. So they would be baby souls that have just emerged out of the sea of chaos and have no understanding of what love is. But their total lack of empathy gives them a big advantage in the dog-eat-dog male dominated world. And this is probably why psychopaths do rule our world. Which means the least spiritually evolve people are our rulers and are also in charge of our planet’s nuclear weapons. Which is a concern.

This is why women are attracted to psychopaths. Because on the spiritual level they are baby souls, whom women want to nurture and teach how to love, by giving them unconditional love. But having a close relationship with a psychopath is as dangerous as getting into a cage with a tiger. This then would explain hybristophilia and why women are attracted to brutal killers. So women coming from the Great Mother to do this, end up being used, abused and even murdered by them. Which although might seem horrible to us, but these loving women can return to the arms of the Great Mother when they die. While these psychopaths could end up drowning in the sea of chaos if they reject the love of these women before they die. So the way the Great Mother sees these men, is totally different to how we see them.

This is why having men take over and rule the world has made it more difficult for women. Before this happened, men would see women as teachers and try to learn from them. But the nature of men is competitive and aggressive and so men wanted to compete against women for power. At first this wasn’t a problem because men were in a weak position. Because they competed against other men and were unable to join together in unity with other men. So all men were on their own, while women could unite and support each other; like we see with bonobo apes. But as men began to learn how to love, they began to find ways to unite with each other. Masculine unity is still difficult, because it still depends on finding a leader, who tells other men what do. But through a hierarchical system, men were somehow able to unite. Then because men are bigger, stronger and also more aggressive and violent than women. They were able break up the female sisterhood and rule the planet.

It might have been hoped if men did rule, they would learn to have a sense of responsibility and learn how to love in their own way. But it also meant that women were no longer men’s teachers. This is because men are hierarchical in their thinking and so strong men become contemptuous of weaker men. They also called women the “weaker sex” and because of this, also saw women as being inferior to them. So they didn’t want to learn from anyone they thought was lower than them in their pecking order. As the result, instead of women being revered teachers, they became abused slaves to men. Yet somehow women were still able to teach men how to love in a patriarchal system. But now, many women are suffering terrible abuse, because men have the power to do that.

This is bad enough, but what is worse, is that women were now learning from men, how not to love, because men tell them; love in a weakness, or it’s masochism. While some women have gone further and have even learned from men, how to hate others. Psychologists claim there are female psychopaths. This could only happen if some female souls come to Earth to teach men how to love, but instead learn from men the exact opposite of this. This is a big problem; an abused women if she retains her ability to love, can easy return into the protective arms of the Great Mother, when she dies. But if the women learns from men how to hate; then she cannot return to the Great Mother. So like men she is in danger of drowning in the sea of chaos. Because of this, she then has to come back to Earth to relearn how to love, if she wants to find her way back to the loving realm of the Great Mother.

It’s a bit like the folk tale of the Scorpion and the Fox, (Turtle or Frog in some stories). A scorpion asks a fox to carry it across a river and promises not to sting it. However, halfway across the river, the scorpion stings the fox, and both of them drown. But as they are drowning, the fox asked the scorpion; “why you sting me? Because you must know, if I drown, then so will you”, and the scorpion replied, “it’s just my nature to do that.” Likewise, if a man refuses the love a women gives him and instead, teaches her how to hate. Then both of them cannot enter the Great Mother when they leave their bodies and both are in danger of drowning in the sea of chaos.

So this also answers the atheists second question; If God is the God of love and claimed by Jesus; then why do we live in a world of suffering? For a start, we live in material bodies which can suffer damage and pain. But this is made worse, because of male souls living on our planet who do not love, compete and fight against other men and women. As we see in many conflicts, wars and genocide. We also have female souls coming from the Great Mother who are trying to save men by teaching them how to love. And the way women do this, is by simply giving men unconditional love.

But many of the male souls find it difficult to learn how to love and are resisting the female attempts to do this; by abusing these loving women. This has become a lot worse, since men have taken over and ruled the world. Because patriarchal religions don’t support or help women suffering abuse from men. They also don’t teach men that if they fail to learn how to love. They could end up drowning in the sea of chaos. Patriarchy is more likely to teach men how to hate, like when they teach people to hate the enemy, in times of war. Or teach people to hate each other in the class war between rich and poor. George Orwell explained how this works in his book 1984. where people are forced to participate in a Two Minutes Hate daily ritual. Where they watch a propaganda film and scream hatred at the state’s enemies. This is to channel people’s frustration and anger away from their leaders and towards an imaginary enemy. We see this today when we have countries where people live in poverty and there is high unemployment and homelessness. The government encourages its people to hate, Russians, Muslims and immigrants to defect blame away from themselves.

It’s true that Christianity does teach love, but men have problems with Jesus’s teachings about love as he seems to teaching men to become losers and pushovers. This is why many men far prefer the teachings of the Old Testament, and its God. He might be, as Richard Dawkins points out a; megalomaniacal, sadomasochistic, capriciously malevolent bully. But at least he is a real macho man. While Jesus’s teachings about love doesn’t appeal to many men, who certainly do not want to “Turn the other cheek.” Probably the only way Jesus’s teachings can be taught to many men, is within a Goddess religion, where men learn why they need to learn how to love. Because in our patriarchal world where; “nice guy come last”, many men don’t understand why they should learn how to love.

Perhaps, the Great Mother has decided that this cannot continue and women will have to take over control of the planet once again. We are starting to see this happening in the 20th century with the emergence of the Suffragettes and Feminism. At present, women are only demanding equal rights with men. But there may be a time when women will go further than this and take over completely. Many men will support them in this; because most men don’t benefit from male rule either. As there is always a huge gap between rich and poor in all male dominated countries. While many young men end up as cannon-fodder in insane, pointless wars. So most men would probably prefer to be ruled by loving women, rather than selfish men. Also, many men on the soul level might unconsciously know that when they die, they are still in danger of being overwhelmed by the sea of chaos, and so they do need to learn how to love.

But the problem for ambitious women, who want to be leaders, is that they have get to the top within the patriarchal system. The way men compete for power can be brutal and in a world where greed and selfishness are seen as virtues. The most successful people are; very competitive, aggressive and deceitful. So women have to learn to be like this, to be also successful within the patriarchal system. This means we end up with women politicians who are just as corrupt as male politicians. Because of this in our present system it’s very unlikely that any caring and compassionate women, are going to get into, any position of power.

Women like men suffer in our world, so why does the Great Mother allow women to suffer when teaching men how to love? The reason for this, is that within the Great Mother unconditional love is easy. When everyone loves each other totally, then it’s hard not to love everyone else. But as Jesus said in the Bible: For if ye love them that love you, what reward have ye? do not even the publicans the same? Matthew 5:46. American Standard Version.

This suggests that in the loving realm of the Great Mother, love is never tested; so love can only be properly tested by living in a unloving world. But sometimes, love is tested to the extreme on our planet so that many women end up being taught how to hate, by men. Which will bar her entry into the realm of the Great Mother, when she dies. So some women are being tested beyond what they are able to deal with.

So to sum up. The reason why we live in a world of suffering. is because men need to learn how to love to protect them from the sea of chaos, but find it difficult to do this. Because men are, selfish, competitive, aggressive and even violent. Men not only inflict pain and suffering onto each other, but also onto women. Women try to teach men how to love, but many men resist this by abusing loving women. Also, women want and need to learn unconditional love, which they learn through loving, unloving men. But sometimes, women end up learning from men, how to hate.

Perhaps, this suffering could be decreased within a Goddess religion with a female priesthood. Religions like this can communicate with the loving Great Mother and the priestesses can join together in love and sisterhood, to support and protect each other. While at the same time bring men into this loving environment to better learn how to love. But whether a religion like that is possible in our patriarchal world, is hard to know.

The feminine world of the Great Mother is totally different to the masculine patriarchal world ruled by men. In the world we live in; if a man commits a crime like theft, assault, rape or murder. We want him to be punished for doing these things, and be put into prison for a long time. But in the world of the Great Mother; she knows that the reason why men do harm to others, is because they are incapable of loving others. So the only way to reform him is to teach him how to love. But the only way to do that; is to love him. But many men take advantage of this and use and abuse the woman who is doing this. Which does seem like a man is being rewarded for his cruel and abusive behaviour.

But if a man is punished for harming others, then punishment is more likely to teach him more how to hate, rather than how to love. So the only solution is to teach him how to love, by loving him, which then becomes a very difficult job for the teacher. As the man will take advantage and exploit her for his own selfish desires. This then becomes a totally thankless task in our world, because women who try to do this, are regarded as masochists and even told; they must be mad. This is the difference between the Old and New Testaments. As the Old Testament tells us: And thine eyes shall not pity; life shall go for life, eye for eye, tooth for tooth, hand for hand, foot for foot. Deuteronomy 19:21 American Standard Version.

So our justice system is based on the Old Testament where we punish those who commit crime. Whereas in the New Testament Jesus teaches us something very different:

38 “You have heard that it was said, ‘An eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth.’

39 But I tell you, don’t resist him who is evil; but whoever strikes you on your right cheek, turn to him the other also.

44 But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you,

45 that you may be children of your Father who is in heaven. For he makes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the just and the unjust.

Matthew 5: 38 – 45 The World English Bible.

But no-one would seriously advocate that we apply Jesus’s teachings to our justice system. If a judge passing judgement on a serial killer, orders that; he be loved by a loving women for the rest of his life. Most people will think the judge had gone insane. So that would never happen, not even in Christian countries. So in spite of Jesus’s teachings. Men are not always encouraged to learn how to love within the patriarchal system. And neither are women, as women’s loving ways are not appreciated in in our patriarchal world and loving women can find themselves being exploited and abused.

For that reason, sometimes the Great Mother teaches men how to love outside of the patriarchal political and religious systems. One way some men learn to love, is through homosexuality. The spiritual reason why some men become homosexuals is because patriarchal marriage to women, doesn’t give men enough reasons to learn to love. Because the woman is giving all the love and this doesn’t give him the opportunity to return her love. So some men form relationships with other men and play the feminine role in the relationship and try to behave like a loving woman. In many cases this can work, but unfortunately, some of these men suffer badly because of this. Homosexual men can be as abusive as heterosexual men. Because of this, some of the men who are attempting to play the feminine role, can end up being beaten up by his more macho partner. He can also be the target of ‘gay-bashers’ heterosexual men who hate gay men.

There are even male prostitutes in places like Brazil, India and Thailand. They’re stigmatised as much and sometimes more, than female prostitutes. So learning how to love through this method is not easy. Because its really hard to learn to love, if a man is being beaten up and abused. In this situation, a man might end up learning to hate, rather than how to love. This may be true of lesbians. If a women has learnt to hate, through abusive relationships with men. She can return to Earth in another lifetime as a lesbian. So she is far less likely to be abused by a man and having a relationship with a loving women, can reawaken her loving feelings.

Another method for men is the femdom relationship. Where a man wants the female to be the dominant partner and he tries to worship and serve her. This can be difficult, because more men want a relationship like this, than women. For this reason, men pay prostitutes to act out the dominant role for him and even pay her to tie him up and whip him. But this is a poor substitute for a proper relationship. But the problem is that few women want to be cruel and sadistic. Also, although men might have fantasies of being whipped by a cruel women, they back off when they experience this in reality. For instance, when a man goes to a dominatrix to be tied up and whipped, they agree on a “safe word” where if when he says it, the dominatrix stops whipping him. And as it is the man who is paying the dominatrix she has to go along with his demands.

The problem with femdom, is the idea that a dominant person also has to be cruel and sadistic. So in the femdom scene women find themselves having to act more like men than women. The idea that a women can be dominant, while also being a loving person at the same time. Doesn’t seem to be understood in femdom fantasies. Yet, surely this is the role mothers play in bring up their children. A good mother will of course love her children unconditionally, but she also has to control and train her children. So they don’t do things like; run out in the road, where there is traffic or play with dangerous things like matches or knifes. But perhaps another way femdom can work, is for a man to adore a woman and “worships the ground she walks on”. So he then serves and worships her and learn the deeper meaning of love by doing this. That would be a more acceptable role for women, than trying to be a cruel sadist.

Perhaps the reason why men have femdom desires is that when men begin to learn to love. They might become aware, on the spiritual level, in previous lifetimes they abused women. These women taught him how to love, and suffered because of this and now they feel guilty about this. For this reason, they have a desire to be punished for what they did. But loving women are not looking for revenge and so few women want to do this. The only time it works, is when a woman has been taught how to hate by abusive men, either in a previous lifetime or in her personal experience. So this type of women will want their revenge on men. Therefore, when a man feel some guilt for past lifetimes of what he did to women, he becomes attracted to women like this. Then she will take full advantage and be cruel to him. As the result, he behaves like an abused women, by trying to teach her to how to love again, by loving her, in spite of her abuse.

But the Great Mother has unconditional love for us all. She has no interest in revenge or punishment. So even if a man has been very abusive towards women in past lifetimes, the Great Mother will not expect him to be punished for this. The only reason why a man chooses to be with an abusive female partner, is a personal decision, because he feels guilty. But the Great Mother and loving women do not demand that from any man.

This is also what Jesus taught, in his; Parable of the Prodigal Son, Luke 15:11–32. In this story a wealthy man has two sons and the younger son demands his inheritance and then leaves his family to go off and squanders all his money, until he has nothing left. Then completely destitute, he has no choice but to return home. But his father welcomes him home and celebrates his return. But his older son was angry and wanted to know why his father is welcoming this brother home after he behaved so badly, in wasting his inheritance. The only thing the father could say; he was happy his son had returned.

So the father in this story represents the Great Mother, who loves us all unconditionally and will still love us when we make mistakes and behave badly. This then can become a problem for decent men, when they see loving women loving “bad boys”. But loving women represent the Great Mother on our planet. So decent men who have learnt how to love, are not threatened by the sea of chaos when they die. But the bad boys are. For that reason, loving women love these, bad boys, in attempt to teach them, what love is. So they will have some protection from the sea of chaos, when they die. Which to people who are brought up in patriarchal religions or are atheists. It must seem to them, that these women must be masochists or insane, because they’re rewarding bad men for their abusive behaviour. And unfortunately, our patriarchal society also teaches the abuser that the woman he is abusing, is masochistic. So he doesn’t understand why she is putting up with his abuse, either. So it becomes a totally thankless task for women trying to teach men how to love in our patriarchal society.